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40
years of helping those whose lives have
been touched by adoption.
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do Not
use sounds except in private whispers. Please do Not ask questions of others, it may scare them . It is not Okay to criticize anyone for any reason. If you have a problem, email me or send me a private message. |
To Join: please
email me with your
connection to adoption: joesoll@adoptionhealing.com
Your screen name will usually be your first name. Your password will be emailed to you. |
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Feelings are: Mad, Sad, Glad, Fear,
Shame, Guilt, Jealousy Feelings Statement examples: I am angry I was not raised by my natural mother. I am sad I did not get to raise my child. I'm afraid that I will die if I work on my pain. |
Note:
Women who lost babies to adoption are
referred to s "moms", "1st moms", or
"natural moms". They are mothers of adoption
loss. They did not give their babies to
anyone. Their babies were taken by adoption.
Gossip inside and outside of our room hurts our mission of healing from adoption wounds. Please keep talk confidential, except in emergencies. |
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Please
note: In private therapy details
matter. In here, too many details dilute the
emotions & are counter-productive. The
most effective way of making progress is to
make simple feeling sentences similar to
those above. When done this way, the
feelings will not be pushed aside.
This is an example of Less being More.
I highly recommend Jane Rowan's pamphlet as an adjunct to the inner child work of my books! https://www.janerowan.com/childbooklet.html |
Code of Conduct:
Language Adoption Healing Book Review ** New * Adoption Healing Video ** New ** In The Company of Eagles Joe's Videos |
Abbreviations:
brb = Be Right Back, lol = Laughing out Loud, ty = Thank You, yw = You're Welcome
roflmao = Rolling On Floor, Laughing My Ass Off, ic = Inner Child, wb = Welcome Back
The flags below represent the countries of those who have participated in our nightly group.
 U.S. |
 Canada |
 U.K. |
 Scotland |
 Erin |
Denmark |
 Norway |
 Sweden |
 Holland |
 Belgium |
 Spain |
 France |
 Germany |
 Italy |
 Suiss |
 Austria |
 Greece |
 Israel |
 Lebanon |
 S. Africa |
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 Colombia |
 Peru |
 Brasil |
 OZ |
 NZ |
 Korea |
 China |
 Vietnam |
 India |
 Sri Lanka |
 Romania |
 Russia |
Approx. Number of Babies Lost to Adoption in the U.S. Since Jan. 1,
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